Understanding Domestic Violence: Breaking The Silence

Understanding Domestic Violence: Breaking the Silence

Domestic violence is a silent epidemic affecting millions across the world, regardless of age, gender, or socioeconomic background. It is more than just physical abuse — it is a pattern of controlling behavior that can take emotional, financial, sexual, and psychological forms.

What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence refers to any behavior in a domestic setting (usually involving a spouse or partner) that is intended to gain or maintain power and control over the other person. It can happen to anyone — women, men, children, or elders — but women are disproportionately affected.

Forms of Domestic Violence

Physical Abuse

Hitting, slapping, choking, or using weapons

Preventing access to medical care

Emotional/Psychological Abuse

Constant criticism, humiliation, threats

Isolation from friends and family

Sexual Abuse

Forced sexual contact or behavior

Using sex as a tool of control or punishment

Financial/Economic Abuse

Controlling access to money

Preventing someone from working or studying

Digital Abuse

Harassment through texts, social media, or surveillance

Sharing private photos without consent

Warning Signs of Abuse

Fear of partner

Frequent injuries with vague explanations

Low self-esteem or anxiety

Withdrawal from friends or family

Control over communication, finances, or whereabouts

Domestic Violence in India: Legal Protection

In India, domestic violence is addressed under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005. Key provisions include:

Protection orders to prevent further abuse

Residence rights (victim cannot be forced out of the home)

Financial relief, including maintenance

Custody orders for children

Access to free legal aid and shelter homes

Victims can also file complaints under Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code, which criminalizes cruelty by a husband or his relatives.

Why Victims Stay Silent

Fear of retaliation or more violence

Financial dependency

Concern for children’s well-being

Social stigma or family pressure

Lack of awareness about rights and support systems

How to Help Someone in an Abusive Relationship

Listen without judgment

Offer emotional support and practical help

Encourage them to speak to a counselor or legal expert

Share information about local shelters and helplines

Do not force them to leave — support them through the process

Resources & Helplines in India

National Commission for Women (NCW): 7827-170-170

181 Women Helpline: For immediate help

Police Emergency: 100

Childline (for children facing abuse): 1098

Local NGOs and legal aid centers

Final Words: Speak Up, Reach Out

Domestic violence thrives in silence. Raising awareness, offering support, and creating safe spaces are crucial steps toward ending this cycle. Whether you're a survivor, a friend, or just a concerned individual — your voice can make a difference.